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    <title type="text">Rojas and Nickelson Family Law, Inc.</title>
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    <updated>2026-06-19T10:34:59Z</updated>

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									                    <name>On Behalf of Rojas and Nickelson Family Law, Inc.</name>
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            <title type="html"><![CDATA[Changes Coming to the Family Code in 2026 to Simplify the Dissolution Process]]></title>
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            <id>https://www.rojasnickelson.com/?p=47619</id>
            <updated>2025-06-06T19:07:55Z</updated>
            <published>2025-06-06T19:07:55Z</published>
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            <summary type="html"><![CDATA[Did you know that there is an easier way to become divorced in California? Summary dissolution is a simplified and faster way for some couples to become divorced without the need for court appearances. Parties seeking a summary dissolution are required to file a joint petition. Under existing law, there are strict requirements to qualify for a summary dissolution, which…]]></summary>
			                <content type="html" xml:base="https://www.rojasnickelson.com/blog/2025/06/changes-coming-to-the-family-code-in-2026-to-simplify-the-dissolution-process/"><![CDATA[Did you know that there is an easier way to become divorced in California? Summary dissolution is a simplified and faster way for some couples to become divorced without the need for court appearances. Parties seeking a summary dissolution are required to file a joint petition. Under existing law, there are strict requirements to qualify for a summary dissolution, which significantly limit the eligibility of couples seeking a simplified divorce:
<ol>
 	<li>Married for five years or less;</li>
 	<li>Lived in California for at least 6 months and in the county of filing for at least 3 months;</li>
 	<li>No minor children and neither party is pregnant;</li>
 	<li>No real property;</li>
 	<li>Debt is less than $7,000;</li>
 	<li>FMV of community property and separate property assets is less than $57,000 each;</li>
 	<li>Irreconcilable differences have caused the irremediable breakdown of the marriage;</li>
 	<li>Forever waive the right to spousal support;</li>
 	<li>Waive the right to appeal and move for a new trial; and</li>
 	<li>Exchange information regarding finances, assets, and debts.</li>
</ol>
Effective January 1, 2026, Senate Bill No. 1427 will expand the ability to file a joint petition and proceed without involving the court. Family Code § 2330 will be amended to include that a proceeding for dissolution can be commenced by filing <em>either</em> a petition or joint petition. If filing a joint petition, the parties must set forth the following facts:
<ol>
 	<li>Date of marriage;</li>
 	<li>If there are minor children: the number of children and age/date of birth of each child;</li>
 	<li>If no minor children: a statement of that fact; and</li>
 	<li>A list of issues which the parties <strong>intend to resolve by agreement</strong>.</li>
</ol>
Parties filing a joint petition may seek discovery pursuant to the Code of Civil Procedure. Additionally, parties may file an amended joint petition which does not affect their ability to proceed with the dissolution pursuant to a joint petition. Although the joint petition does simplify the dissolution process, it does not reduce the filing fees required under a regular dissolution, as the parties are still required to pay the filing fees for a regular petition and response. Like a regular divorce, there is a six month waiting period for the dissolution to finalize.

Senate Bill No. 1427 also adds Family Code § 2342.5, which provides that if either party file an amended petition or response, the joint petition for dissolution is deemed revoked and the proceeding shall proceed as a regular dissolution. If either party files a Request for Order, that party must file an amended petition or response, meaning that the joint petition will be revoked, and the case shall proceed in normal course.]]></content>
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									                    <name>On Behalf of Rojas and Nickelson Family Law, Inc.</name>
				            </author>
            <title type="html"><![CDATA[Navigating Parenting Time in Cases Involving Domestic Violence]]></title>
            <link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="https://www.rojasnickelson.com/blog/2023/07/navigating-parenting-time-in-cases-involving-domestic-violence/" />
            <id>https://www.rojasnickelson.com/?p=47416</id>
            <updated>2023-08-09T19:26:17Z</updated>
            <published>2023-07-28T09:56:20Z</published>
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            <summary type="html"><![CDATA[Domestic violence, a public health issue worldwide, includes any abusive, forceful, or threatening act inflicted by one family member, dating partner, or household member upon an intimate partner. According to California Family Code § 6203, subd. (b), domestic violence is further characterized as a pattern of coercive and assaultive behaviors extending far beyond physical violence, including, but not limited to,…]]></summary>
			                <content type="html" xml:base="https://www.rojasnickelson.com/blog/2023/07/navigating-parenting-time-in-cases-involving-domestic-violence/"><![CDATA[Domestic violence, a public health issue worldwide, includes any abusive, forceful, or threatening act inflicted by one family member, dating partner, or household member upon an intimate partner. According to California Family Code § 6203, subd. (b), domestic violence is further characterized as a pattern of coercive and assaultive behaviors extending far beyond physical violence, including, but not limited to, verbal and psychological attacks, economic coercion, stalking, harassing, making incessant telephone calls, destroying personal property, or disturbing someone’s peace.

Cal. Fam. Code § 3044 states that if a parent is found to have engaged in an act of domestic violence against their current spouse or dating partner, or against the children embroiled in the custody case within the past five years, this creates a rebuttable presumption that <em>it is</em> <em>not </em>in the best interest of the children for the parent who committed the abuse to have sole physical or legal custody. This means that a judge would have to issue an order that the non-abusive parent have custody of the child<em> unless</em> the abusive parent can rebut the presumption and provide evidence that it is actually in the child’s best interest to grant them custody rights.

What about the abusive parent’s rights to visitation, (more commonly referred to as parenting time)? Is there a presumption against awarding parenting time to an abusive parent? Generally, the answer is no, and a parent who has been found to have committed domestic abuse against the other parent can still have access to some parenting time. But it is important to note that in light of <em>Celia S. v. Hugo H., </em>3 Cal.App.5th 655 (2016), California judges cannot simply order a 50-50 visitation schedule without first rebutting the Cal. Fam. Code § 3044 presumption because otherwise this would amount to the functional equivalent of a joint physical custody agreement, which can be detrimental to the child’s best interest if one of the parents has an ascribable finding of abuse on the books. Furthermore, in <em>Celia S</em>., the trial court emphasized that if a noncustodial parent successfully overcomes the § 3044 presumption, the court must state the reasons for its ruling in writing or on the record.

The health, safety, and well-being of any children involved are heavily considered and prioritized.  California trial courts carefully assess any history of domestic violence against the other parent or children, the severity, frequency, and recency of the domestic violence, and any protective measures (such as restraining orders, protective orders, etc.) in place when making decisions regarding parenting time with the noncustodial parent. Courts have the authority to order supervised parenting time with the noncustodial parent. In such circumstances, parenting time with the noncustodial parent may occur in a controlled setting or under the supervision of a neutral third party.

Ultimately, our family courts must grapple with the fundamental question: Would granting parenting time to an abuser be detrimental to the child? Therefore, it is crucial that courts continue to measure the impact of domestic violence on the children as paramount when deciding whether to grant parenting time to a noncustodial parent who has perpetrated domestic violence.]]></content>
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									                    <name>On Behalf of Rojas and Nickelson Family Law, Inc.</name>
				            </author>
            <title type="html"><![CDATA[How Do I Get Custody Of The Kids?]]></title>
            <link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="https://www.rojasnickelson.com/blog/2020/08/how-do-i-get-custody-of-the-kids/" />
            <id>https://www.rojasnickelson.com/?p=47113</id>
            <updated>2020-08-19T18:56:36Z</updated>
            <published>2020-08-19T18:56:36Z</published>
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            <summary type="html"><![CDATA[When a divorce case involves custody issues, those custody issues frequently become the central (and most emotional) in the entire case.  And appropriately so.  A parent’s relationship with his or her children can be significantly impacted by the psychological and emotional turmoil that a bitter custody battle can create.  Custody issues are not made easier by a court system designed…]]></summary>
			                <content type="html" xml:base="https://www.rojasnickelson.com/blog/2020/08/how-do-i-get-custody-of-the-kids/"><![CDATA[When a divorce case involves custody issues, those custody issues frequently become the central (and most emotional) in the entire case.  And appropriately so.  A parent’s relationship with his or her children can be significantly impacted by the psychological and emotional turmoil that a bitter custody battle can create.  Custody issues are not made easier by a court system designed for a “one side versus the other” form of conflict resolution.  The Family courts recognize this, and have designed methods (which vary from court to court) to deflect custody issues as quickly as they become known into a more cooperative and participatory “mediation” type process.  Once a custody case is filed, the Family court will generally schedule custody mediation with its own internal mediators.  This system is generally known as Family Court Services (“FCS”) mediation.  The FCS mediator will usually meet with both parties with a goal of reaching agreements on a parenting plan for the children that can be drafted into an agreement and sent to the judge for execution as a court order.  If FCS mediation is 100% successful, and the parties reach an agreement on all issues, the custody portion of the case will be resolved (at least temporarily) pending a review process to ensure that everything is going well a few months down the road.  If the parents cannot agree on everything, the mediator will issue “recommendations” to the court as to his or her opinion regarding what parenting plan is in the children’s best interests.  These recommendations are more often than not going to be adopted by the judge as court orders, but either parent (or both) can object to the recommendations and request a long cause hearing (or trial) to allow him or her an opportunity to explain to the court why the recommendations are not good for the children.  The important idea to note is that mediation must be given an opportunity to resolve the custody issues before a judge will get involved (unless an emergency arises that requires the court’s immediate attention).

As the children grow and develop, the parenting plan will need to be modified in all likelihood.  FCS mediation can also help with that, if the parties are unable to reach agreements themselves.  FCS mediation is free.  But the court mediators are frequently stretched very thin, and do not have large amounts of time to spend with a family to resolve more complicated issues.  FCS mediation is also not generally set up to handle high conflict cases involving complex facts.  In such cases, a parent can ask the court for Private Child Custody Recommending Counseling (“Private Mediation”).  The mediation process with a private mediator is similar to FCS mediation, and the goals are identical – to bring the parties to an agreement on the parenting plan.  But Private Mediation is not limited in terms of the amount of time the mediator can spend with the parents.  In fact, most cases will take several weeks of mediation to reach a resolution.  Private mediation is thus a more in-depth process.  It is also a more expensive option, as the mediators will charge the parents for their time.  The private mediators, though, are mental health care professionals who generally only do custody work for divorcing or separating parents.  When the future emotional and psychological needs of the children are at stake, an investment in a mediator who will spend the time necessary with the parents to generate the best parenting plan for the kids is often critical.  As in FCS mediation, if the private mediator is not able to bring about a complete agreement, the mediator will issue recommendations to the court, which will likely be adopted subject to either parent’s right to a trial on the parenting plan issues.

In rare cases, the mediator may recommend an “evaluation” of the parents in order to determine with more certainty what dynamics between the parents may be in play that negatively affect the parenting plan for the children.  Such evaluations are not common, and will ordinarily only take place in the most difficult custody battles.  In most cases, mediation (either private or FCS) will resolve the custody issues, and may be revisited as the children grow older.]]></content>
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	        <entry>
            <author>
									                    <name>On Behalf of Rojas and Nickelson Family Law, Inc.</name>
				            </author>
            <title type="html"><![CDATA[What Is The Difference Between Temporary Spousal Support (Or Alimony) And &#8220;Permanent&#8221; Spousal Support?]]></title>
            <link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="https://www.rojasnickelson.com/blog/2020/08/what-is-the-difference-between-temporary-spousal-support-or-alimony-and-permanent-spousal-support/" />
            <id>https://www.rojasnickelson.com/?p=47111</id>
            <updated>2020-08-19T18:54:14Z</updated>
            <published>2020-08-19T18:54:14Z</published>
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            <summary type="html"><![CDATA[The answer to this question is fairly simple, but the consequences are significant and far-reaching for an individual paying or receiving spousal support.  For starters, though the term “alimony” has reached a certain level of notoriety in popular culture, it is not a term that the Family Code or the courts use with any regularity.  Money paid by one soon-to-be-ex…]]></summary>
			                <content type="html" xml:base="https://www.rojasnickelson.com/blog/2020/08/what-is-the-difference-between-temporary-spousal-support-or-alimony-and-permanent-spousal-support/"><![CDATA[The answer to this question is fairly simple, but the consequences are significant and far-reaching for an individual paying or receiving spousal support.  For starters, though the term “alimony” has reached a certain level of notoriety in popular culture, it is not a term that the Family Code or the courts use with any regularity.  Money paid by one soon-to-be-ex to another soon-to-be-ex is simply called “spousal support” or “maintenance.”  Spousal support does come in two forms, though, and those two forms of support serve very different purposes.  The first form of spousal support is “temporary spousal support.”  The fancy Latin term is “<em>pendent lite</em>” support.  This is the kind of spousal support that will generally be ordered by the court very early in a divorce case, usually soon after the Petition for Dissolution of Marriage has been filed.  Temporary spousal support can only be ordered after one of the spouses actually files a motion requesting it, though – the court cannot simply order it because someone checked the right box on the Petition for Dissolution form.

Assuming that a proper motion for temporary support is filed, the court will evaluate the respective incomes of the spouses, including tax-related factors like mortgage interest deductions, property tax deductions, health insurance payments, or a handful of other specific financial considerations, and will plug all of those numbers into a computer program, which will then spit out the proper support amount.  The purpose of temporary spousal support is to make sure that both parties have relatively equal access to income during the divorce action so that neither party has a financial advantage over the other while the case works its way through the system.  Temporary support will generally go away when a Judgment is entered in the case (either by trial or by agreement).

This does not mean, though, that spousal support goes away after Judgment.  But it does change, becoming “post-Judgment” support – often called “permanent” support.  Post-Judgment support is rarely truly permanent.  The purpose of post-Judgment support is to enable both parties to maintain the “marital standard of living” after divorce.  The marital standard of living is a fact sensitive determination, but usually involves looking at the financial health of the marriage over a much longer term than simply evaluating present incomes (as in temporary support).  The court is required to evaluate a laundry list of factors that will impact the determination of post-Judgment support, and cannot simply plug numbers into a computer program.  As a result, post-Judgment support is often less than temporary support – mostly because the court considers a much wider array of factors than in a temporary support situation.  Post-Judgment support in a marriage of less than 10 years in duration will usually be paid for a period of one-half the duration of the marriage.  In  marriages of over 10 years (a presumptively “long term” marriage), support will not likely be automatically terminated on a particular date – it will continue until the spouse receiving the support is self-sufficient or the court determines that the spouse receiving it has had plenty of time to become self-sufficient.  Both spouses have an obligation to become self-supporting under California law, even if only one spouse worked during the marriage.]]></content>
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            <author>
									                    <name>On Behalf of Rojas and Nickelson Family Law, Inc.</name>
				            </author>
            <title type="html"><![CDATA[How Long Will It Take For My Divorce To Be Final?]]></title>
            <link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="https://www.rojasnickelson.com/blog/2020/08/how-long-will-it-take-for-my-divorce-to-be-final/" />
            <id>https://www.rojasnickelson.com/?p=47107</id>
            <updated>2020-08-19T18:52:21Z</updated>
            <published>2020-08-19T18:45:23Z</published>
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            <summary type="html"><![CDATA[Unfortunately, this is not a question with a particularly easy answer.  From a purely procedural standpoint, the Family court cannot enter a Judgment of Dissolution of Marriage for at least six months after the original Petition for Dissolution was filed.  The reason behind this “waiting period” stems from public policy – the California Legislature wants to ensure that the spouses…]]></summary>
			                <content type="html" xml:base="https://www.rojasnickelson.com/blog/2020/08/how-long-will-it-take-for-my-divorce-to-be-final/"><![CDATA[Unfortunately, this is not a question with a particularly easy answer.  From a purely procedural standpoint, the Family court cannot enter a Judgment of Dissolution of Marriage for at least six months after the original Petition for Dissolution was filed.  The reason behind this “waiting period” stems from public policy – the California Legislature wants to ensure that the spouses have ample time to try to “work things out” before a divorce can become final, so they have imposed the waiting period as a method to give spouses that opportunity.  From a more practical perspective, it is rare for a contested divorce case to resolve in only six months, particularly if the case involves thorny issues like child custody, long term spousal support, and property valuation issues.  In those kinds of cases, other experts (like real estate appraisers, vocational evaluators, and forensic accountants) may have to get involved to assist in the fact finding process and to assist the parties in negotiating a reasonable resolution to the hot button issues in the divorce.  This added layer of complication adds time to the process (and also adds another layer of expense, not surprisingly).  In cases involving competing experts in these areas, it is not unheard of to have a divorce case lingering in the Family court for a year and a half, two years, or even longer.  And if the parties have small children (and do not reach a consensus on a parenting plan that works for the kids), the custody case could be on-going until the children reach the age of 18.

Though the prospect of a divorce case languishing in the Family court for a decade or more is not an appealing one, most cases do not usually take that long to finalize.  The key is in the approach the parties take to the case, and the determination to get the issues resolved (whether through cooperative negotiation or contested litigation) as soon as they can.  In cases where the parties want a cooperative resolution, and work diligently to achieve it, a divorce can be finished relatively soon – sometimes even before the waiting period has expired.  In cases where issues must be litigated, however, the divorce is not likely to be final for many months after that waiting period has ended – and may extend years if the trial and Judgment result in appeals and other Post-Judgment proceedings.]]></content>
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	        <entry>
            <author>
									                    <name>On Behalf of Rojas and Nickelson Family Law, Inc.</name>
				            </author>
            <title type="html"><![CDATA[How Much Is My Divorce Case Going To Cost Me?]]></title>
            <link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="https://www.rojasnickelson.com/blog/2020/08/how-much-is-my-divorce-case-going-to-cost-me/" />
            <id>https://www.rojasnickelson.com/?p=47105</id>
            <updated>2020-08-19T18:44:04Z</updated>
            <published>2020-08-19T18:44:04Z</published>
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            <summary type="html"><![CDATA[This question is perhaps the most common question divorce lawyers face in their practices.  And the answer is virtually impossible to ascertain early in the process, however distressing that is to potential clients.  The reasons for the lack of certainty regarding overall cost are many and varied.  Every case is different, for one thing – different property issues, different business…]]></summary>
			                <content type="html" xml:base="https://www.rojasnickelson.com/blog/2020/08/how-much-is-my-divorce-case-going-to-cost-me/"><![CDATA[This question is perhaps the most common question divorce lawyers face in their practices.  And the answer is virtually impossible to ascertain early in the process, however distressing that is to potential clients.  The reasons for the lack of certainty regarding overall cost are many and varied.  Every case is different, for one thing – different property issues, different business issues, different custody issues, different support issues.  And perhaps most importantly, different psychological and emotional dynamics will be in play in every case.  The single most relevant factor in evaluating what a case will cost is the ability of the parties (and attorneys) to “play nice in the sandbox.”  If one party or attorney takes an unreasonably aggressive stance on an issue, or is not cooperative in the fact gathering process, or prefers litigation to negotiation, the overall cost of responding to such a party or attorney may grow exponentially.  Evaluating the case issues early, and also evaluating the likelihood of the other side to engage in “scorched earth” tactics, can enable someone seeking a divorce to anticipate costs – but issue spotting and “best case” – “worst-case” scenarios will only get one so far.  The ultimate cost is impossible to estimate at the beginning of a case, and an attorney that suggests such an ultimate cost is either overly optimistic or inexperienced.

What a qualified Family Law attorney should be doing for a client, though, is a constant and on-going analysis of case costs during each and every billing period.  The attorney-client relationship is based on transparency and trust, after all – and a good attorney will be direct with the client on what anticipated costs will be in light of the developing tactics and strategies employed both by his or her own side and by the other side, as well.  Of course, the more initially complicated the case, the higher the initial deposit that the attorney will likely require.  Family Law attorneys can also represent clients on a “Limited Scope” basis – which simply means that they will be assisting a particular client on one or two discrete issues, and will not represent the client for everything in the case.  Limited Scope representation can bring much more certainty to overall costs, and is an excellent choice for a potential client with only one or two complex issues in the overall case.]]></content>
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	        <entry>
            <author>
									                    <name>On Behalf of Rojas and Nickelson Family Law, Inc.</name>
				            </author>
            <title type="html"><![CDATA[Can My Spouse Take Part Of My Professional Practice If We Divorce?]]></title>
            <link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="https://www.rojasnickelson.com/blog/2020/08/can-my-spouse-take-part-of-my-professional-practice-if-we-divorce/" />
            <id>https://www.rojasnickelson.com/?p=47102</id>
            <updated>2020-08-19T18:42:15Z</updated>
            <published>2020-08-19T18:41:56Z</published>
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            <summary type="html"><![CDATA[I am frequently asked by my professional clients (i.e. attorneys, physicians, accountants, etc.) whether their professional practices are fair game in divorce court for their soon-to-be-ex spouses.  The answer to that question (not surprisingly) is a resounding “maybe.”  California community property law starts with the presumption that anything that a married couple gets their hands on during the marriage is…]]></summary>
			                <content type="html" xml:base="https://www.rojasnickelson.com/blog/2020/08/can-my-spouse-take-part-of-my-professional-practice-if-we-divorce/"><![CDATA[I am frequently asked by my professional clients (i.e. attorneys, physicians, accountants, etc.) whether their professional practices are fair game in divorce court for their soon-to-be-ex spouses.  The answer to that question (not surprisingly) is a resounding “maybe.”  California community property law starts with the presumption that anything that a married couple gets their hands on during the marriage is labeled as community property and is owned equally by both spouses.  As with most things, there are exceptions to this presumption.  And when we are evaluating a professional practice in a divorce, we have to look at a few factors that may help us answer the question of the appropriate label (community property or separate property) for that practice.  Generally speaking, if the owner of the practice works really hard on growing the practice during the marriage, puts in extra hours to generate extra income, invests earnings in the practice to assist in its development, or otherwise takes a direct hand in managing the development of the practice, those efforts may be deemed by the Family Law court as contributing community property to the growth of the business.  Any efforts that either spouse makes during the marriage, and any income resulting from those efforts, are presumptively community property, after all.  Even if the practice was opened before the couple was married (and is thus “separate property”), community property efforts during marriage may create a community property interest that must be evaluated in the divorce case.

This is not to say that every professional practice will have a community property component.  The analysis of whether any community property exists is always fact-sensitive, and the conclusions we draw will depend upon the circumstances in each particular case.  We are fluent with “accountant-speak”, and we frequently work with the forensic accountants that assist us in evaluating the proper division of professional practices in divorce cases.  This evaluation can be complex, and we encourage you to get in touch with us if you have further questions or concerns regarding your particular practice.]]></content>
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	        <entry>
            <author>
									                    <name>On Behalf of Rojas and Nickelson Family Law, Inc.</name>
				            </author>
            <title type="html"><![CDATA[What Is A QDRO?]]></title>
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            <id>https://www.rojasnickelson.com/?p=47059</id>
            <updated>2020-08-19T17:10:36Z</updated>
            <published>2020-08-19T16:48:16Z</published>
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            <summary type="html"><![CDATA[A “QDRO” is a Qualified Domestic Relations Order.  These orders are required for the parties in a divorce action to properly divide certain retirement assets.  401(k) Plans, 403(b) Plans, defined benefit or defined contribution pension plans, and a handful of other retirement assets generally require the preparation of a QDRO before the retirement company will apportion either party’s retirement funds. …]]></summary>
			                <content type="html" xml:base="https://www.rojasnickelson.com/blog/2020/08/what-is-a-qdro/"><![CDATA[A “QDRO” is a Qualified Domestic Relations Order.  These orders are required for the parties in a divorce action to properly divide certain retirement assets.  401(k) Plans, 403(b) Plans, defined benefit or defined contribution pension plans, and a handful of other retirement assets generally require the preparation of a QDRO before the retirement company will apportion either party’s retirement funds.  QDROs can be fairly complicated, and most retirement Plans have templates that they recommend using to speed the process of approving the order so that it may be entered by the court.

The process for obtaining a QDRO can be confusing.  The parties must first “join” the retirement Plan in the underlying divorce action.  In other words, the Plan must become a party in the case.  Plans require this first step to ensure that the judge who signs the Marital Settlement Agreement or Judgment has the jurisdiction to order the Plan to divide the retirement assets.  This “joinder” is accomplished through a variety of forms designed for this express purpose, and Plans generally understand them and sign off on the requested joinder.  Once the Plan is joined in the action, the parties must then value the community property portion of the retirement account.  This step can be made more difficult if the retirement plan existed prior to marriage (and thus contains separate property), or is in pay-out status at the time of the order.  Nonetheless, it is generally a good idea to have an expert evaluate the retirement assets in order to ascertain the community property interests in them.  Once the assets have been valued, and the parties have agreed to their division, the formal QDRO must be prepared for the signatures of the parties, the attorneys for the parties, the Plan Administrator, and the court.  As noted, the Plans themselves usually have a template, but it is advisable to have the expert who valued the accounts review the template to ensure that it complies with the governing federal ERISA laws.  Once the QDRO is fully executed, it is filed with the court, and the resulting signed order will enable the Plan to divide the retirement as ordered.

QDROs are complicated, and it is not advisable for a self-represented party to attempt one without assistance.  My office has extensive experience in the QDRO area, and would be more than happy to discuss your options for dividing the retirement assets at issue in your divorce.]]></content>
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									                    <name>On Behalf of Rojas and Nickelson Family Law, Inc.</name>
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            <title type="html"><![CDATA[How Does &#8220;Legal Separation&#8221; Differ From Divorce?]]></title>
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            <updated>2020-08-19T16:46:28Z</updated>
            <published>2020-08-19T16:45:52Z</published>
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            <summary type="html"><![CDATA[This question is raised frequently in a Family Law practice, mostly because of a common misconception of what “separation” actually is.  The “date of separation” is a key element in any divorce case, and the use of the word “separation” in this sense is the root cause of the confusion with a Legal Separation.  The date of separation is simply…]]></summary>
			                <content type="html" xml:base="https://www.rojasnickelson.com/blog/2020/08/how-does-legal-separation-differ-from-divorce/"><![CDATA[This question is raised frequently in a Family Law practice, mostly because of a common misconception of what “separation” actually is.  The “date of separation” is a key element in any divorce case, and the use of the word “separation” in this sense is the root cause of the confusion with a Legal Separation.  The date of separation is simply the day that the “community” (i.e. the marriage) no longer exists.  But that date is not determined by any pronouncement by the court in a court order or Judgment.  It is simply the day upon which one of the two spouses decides that the marriage is irremediably broken, and then acts on that decision in some objectively verifiable way (like by filing a Petition for Dissolution of Marriage or Petition for Legal Separation, moving out of the house, or even just moving into the spare room).  Once that day arrives, the marriage is for all intents and purposes over, although the parties are still legally married and will be legally married until the Judgment of Dissolution of Marriage or Legal Separation is issued.  The date of separation does affect the characterization of property and income, though, which can be significant particularly in divorce cases that take years to resolve.  For instance, when the date of separation is determined, any acquisitions of property by either party after that date are no longer considered to be presumptively community purchases, as they would be if made during the marriage.  Similarly, all earnings from employment after that date will be considered separate property, and the other spouse will not be entitled to share in those earnings (except by proper support order).  All debts incurred by either spouse will also be considered separate debts if incurred after the date of separation.

So then what is the difference between the “date of separation” and a “Legal Separation?”  The date of separation is simply a reference point for the court to determine how long the marriage lasted and to decide issues of property characterization – it has no bearing on the actual status of the spouses as married or not married.  Legal Separation, however, is a formal court ordered status, and that formal status can only be brought about by a Judgment of Legal Separation.  It is not related to the date of separation in any real sense – it is simply the order of the court that the State of California views the spouses as officially separated, and has made all other orders in the case in line with that order.  Just like a divorce case, a Legal Separation will include appropriate property orders, child custody orders, child and spousal support orders, attorney’s fees orders, and any other ancillary orders necessary to resolve the spouses’ various disputes in the marriage.  But unlike divorce, after a Legal Separation, the former spouses cannot remarry – they are not divorced in the eyes of the State.  Further, if one spouse files a Petition for Legal Separation, the other spouse is entitled to respond with a Response and Request for Dissolution of Marriage, in which case the court will proceed as if the case is a divorce and not a Legal Separation.  Both parties must agree that the matter will proceed as a Legal Separation.

The reason some choose Legal Separation over divorce is to maintain health insurance benefits (upon Dissolution of Marriage, the insurers usually preclude former spouses from inclusion on the other spouse’s insurance policy), or because religious beliefs preclude divorce.  In all other respects, a Judgment of Legal Separation is identical to a Judgment of Dissolution of Marriage, and in my experience 99.9% of clients are better served by a Judgment of Dissolution than by a Judgment of Legal Separation.]]></content>
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            <title type="html"><![CDATA[What Is The Difference Between Family Court Services Mediation And Private Child Custody Recommending Counseling?]]></title>
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            <id>https://www.rojasnickelson.com/?p=47054</id>
            <updated>2020-08-19T16:44:36Z</updated>
            <published>2020-08-19T16:44:36Z</published>
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            <summary type="html"><![CDATA[In any case involving children, the Family Court will expect the parents to attend custody mediation before it issues any substantive orders regarding the parenting plan.  If the parties to the divorce action (or to the parentage action if the parties are not married) agree to a parenting plan without the need for mediation, the parties are free to put…]]></summary>
			                <content type="html" xml:base="https://www.rojasnickelson.com/blog/2020/08/what-is-the-difference-between-family-court-services-mediation-and-private-child-custody-recommending-counseling/"><![CDATA[In any case involving children, the Family Court will expect the parents to attend custody mediation before it issues any substantive orders regarding the parenting plan.  If the parties to the divorce action (or to the parentage action if the parties are not married) agree to a parenting plan without the need for mediation, the parties are free to put their agreements into written form and present them to the court for endorsement as orders.  But if the child custody case is volatile from the beginning, involves issues related to Domestic Violence Temporary Restraining Orders, or a request to move out of the county, state, or county (to name only a few hotly contested child custody issues), custody mediation will be required before any orders issue.

The parents generally have a choice when it comes to the forum within which the mediation will take place.  The courts will by default order the parents to attend Family Court Services mediation (“FCS”), presided over by a court-employed mediator.  Because of the sheer volume of family law cases in any given county, and the lack of appropriate State funding to pay for mediation services, the FCS mediators tend to carry large caseloads and have limited time to handle any given case.  The goal for the FCS mediator (as with any mediator) is to bring the parents to a complete agreement regarding the parenting plan.  If they cannot get the parents to agree completely to a plan, the mediators in many counties will recommend what they believe to be in the children’s “best interests.”  Some counties’ mediators will not issue a recommendation if the parents do not reach agreement (called “non-recommending” counties), and will merely refer the case back to the court for further hearing.  But assuming that a recommendation issues, the court will very likely adopt that recommendation as the order of the court (perhaps with one or two minor changes), subject to either party’s right to call for an evidentiary hearing on whether the recommendations are in the children’s best interests.  If FCS mediation does not go well in the short period of time allotted to the parties, the impact on the parenting plan (and on the children) can be huge.  FCS mediation is free to the parties, and is likely best reserved for cases with only minor differences of opinion on the parenting schedule or other less critical issues.

Should FCS mediation not appear to be an appropriate option for a particular case, one or both of the parents may opt for Private Child Custody Recommending Counseling (“Private Mediation”).  Private Mediation is done by a private sector Marriage &amp; Family Therapist, child psychologist, or other qualified mental health care professional whose practice revolves primarily (if not solely) around Private Mediation clients.  The parties could simply agree on that option and select the private mediator with whom they would like to work, then submit that agreement to the court.  If the parties do not agree, either party can file a motion for a private mediator to be appointed.  Private mediators <em>do</em> charge for their time, much like attorneys do, but if the issues are complicated or difficult, the money invested in private mediation is money well spent. The private mediators do not have the same limitations that FCS mediators do in terms of caseload and time commitment, so have the resources to fully investigate the issues involved in each case and arrive at agreements or recommendations that carefully consider all of those issues.

Given the importance to the lives of the children involved in the case, and the potential impact to the children years down the road, the Private Mediation option is what my office most often recommends.  And because the mediation process is so important to the eventual outcome in the custody case, my office can fully prepare any client for FCS or Private Mediation in advance of the first mediation appointment to ensure that the client understands what mediation is, how to approach each issue in the case, and generally normalize the client’s expectations regarding this important and potentially life altering process.]]></content>
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